The Doormat and the Superstar!

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Why do men cheat! No one has any idea – maybe because sometimes the wife forgives easily. Look at English Footballer and Chelsea superstar John Terry, after so many discretions in the past his wife Toni Poole has forgiven him again for his latest affair. 

So the news is that Toni Poole has taken John Terry back!  Lucky for John, he just mind end up the captain again for the world cup. I mean anything can happen right? 

Here is my take on the entire “much ado”  

Toni Poole: I think you are making a BIG mistake! Firstly you are allowing JT to humiliate you publicly, the world now judges you as the ideal WAG! A gullible, money grabbing dependent fool! You have never worked in your life and fear taking on the world on your own. I understand there are kids involved but please for God sake wake up! You can get a good divorce lawyer and carve up JT’s wealth and live pretty well. After all you are legally his wife. But you are too dependent on being a silly little WAG. You love that title, don’t you? I mean the recent pictures from the pool side in the fancy Dubai hotel canoodling up with JT is making the tabloids laugh at themselves. Its like nothing ever happened and the family values are intact. He got Vanessa Perroncel  to do an ABORTION! Do you realize what that means. He was selfish enough not to use protection which could lead to God knows what! He of course never thought about you when he started the affair and do you know why- because he has done it before and you have let him off the hook. He knows you are just a stupid doormat! I am sorry to say this but you make women look stupid. I am happy to say that than God all women are not like you! And by the way your family- is probably telling you that this is the right decision, don’t you get it why? Why because JT earns 175,000 pounds a week; 

One for the tabloids! JT and Toni

 

John Terry: Well mate! I truly respect you as a Chelsea FC football player. You are a Stamford Bridge legend! Your talent and leadership abilities is one of the reasons why Chelsea is one of the worlds top clubs. But judging your personal life is well – like some people say not our business. If  football players were judged according to their personal life I a pretty sure there would be no English team! Right from George Best to the 70s Chelsea, everyone has had the “jack the lad” lifestyle. But this brings me to a very important question – is a leadership position as much about your character or is infidelity overrated. It is acceptable when it comes to actors or musicians, it is even acceptable when it comes to sports stars – case in point Kobe Bryant; but not acceptable when it comes to politicians! 

So in the end – JT get back to London soon and ensure Chelsea wins silver wear – maybe then the affair would be forgotten but never forgives. 

AIDS HIV – Lest We Forget!

The AIDS/HIV virus was first discovered in the early eighties among the gay community in New York and California. Prompting it to be called as the Gay Cancer and therefore provoking a lot of prejudice against the gay community. Perfectly healthy men were falling ill suddenly with a acute virus which the doctors were having a tough time to deduce.

In 1983, researches in France’s Pasteur Institute were able to isolate the virus which was then confirmed upon detailed investigation that in fact it does relate to the outbreak of the AIDS Virus. And by the end of that year nearly 35 countries confirmed to have the virus which was only believed to be in New York and California

In 1984 a French Canadian flight attendant by the name of Gaëtan Dugas dies of AIDS related disease. He is considered by many as Patient Zero.  He is allegedly responsible for single handedly spreading the disease among the gay community to an estimated nearly 2,500 people.

By 1990, more than 1 million people had been affected and now the world is waking up to this monster. The Western countries start to use a triple cocktail of vaccine hoping to contain the virus, but in a few years it is clear the AIDS virus has the ability to mutate or “hide” in the body and therefore it can never be completely terminated. By the beginning of 2000 nearly 31 million people have been affected.  The US Food and Drug Administration in 2004 approve the first generation of HIV medicine. India surpasses South Africa as the world’s largest HIV population.

Let’s make one thing perfectly clear, after 28 years and billions of dollars in research, we are as close to finding a cure as we were back in 1981. This is a global pandemic which can effect anyone, anywhere in the world and no one is safe. Data shows that even wearing a condom only gives a 80% safety if the partner is effected with HIV. Therefore, prevention is the only way to go. If you love your partner, get yourself tested for HIV/Aids before taking the relationship forward.

Elton John: The Last Song

Yesterday you came to lift me up
As light as straw and brittle as a bird
Today I weigh less than a shadow on the wall
Just one more whisper of a voice unheard

Tomorrow leave the windows open
As fear grows please hold me in your arms
Won’t you help me if you can to shake this anger
I need your gentle hands to keep me calm

`Cause I never thought I’d lose
I only thought I’d win
I never dreamed I’d feel
This fire beneath my skin
I can’t believe you love me
I never thought you’d come
I guess I misjudged love
Between a father and his son

Things we never said come together
The hidden truth no longer haunting me
Tonight we touched on the things that were never spoken
That kind of understanding sets me free